अकेले खुश कैसे रहे? (how to be happy alone)

 Namaskar doston, Aaj aapke Samne Lekar Aaya hun Ek Naya topic. 

Asha karta hun Abhi Tak Main jitne bhi Vishay per baten kari hain, UN sab se aap satisfied Rahe Honge.

 To aaj ka topic Hai "Akele Khush Kaise Rahen." 

Baton ko Aage badhane Se Pahle main aapse  yah puchna Chahunga. ki kya Vastav Mein samsya yahi hai ki Akele Khush Kaise Rahe. yah samasya Aur Bhi Kuchh hai,

 Jaise Akele Khush rehne ki jarurat kya hai Jab sab log Hain To Sab ke sath Raho khush raho. 

To Fir aap kahoge-

"sab ke sath Khushi milati Nahin ya milati Hai To uski bahut badi kimat chukani padti hai". 

Me khuga-To Fir aap UN Logon ke sath rahe kyon. yaha sari baten Ek dusre se connected hai.

 manushya ka vastvik swabhav bhedd ke sath Rahana Nahin balki Akele Rahana hai, manushya Vastav Mein Ek Janwar hi hai. aur Hamare purvaj Jo bandar the aapko thoda bhi Itihaas ka gyan hoga to aapko Pata Hoga.  vah Sab akele hi Rahte the. us Samay to Koi rishtedari, bua, Fufa  bhai, chacha, dost yaar ,girlfriend, boyfriend Kuchh Nahin tha.

 To aap mein se Kuchh Log Kahenge are ham to modern log Hain aap kya Jano Dosti Yari kya hoti hai. vo mera Jigri Yaar Hai main uske liye Jaan De sakta hun, vah Mere Liye Jaan De sakta hai.aap Kya Jano Pathar Dil................

 lekin Kahin na kahin Dil Ki gehraiyon mein aap bhi Jante Hain ho Main Kah Raha Hun vah utna hi Sach Hai Jitna ki Suraj ka purav se nikalna.

aur Agar Nahin mante to koi baat nahin aapko Yad Dila Dun..........



" Jab aapko mentally problem ho rahi thi mansik kast ho raha tha aapke Hriday Mein Jo Vedana uth rahi thi.aap sabse kah rahe the- pata nahin Kyon lekin Kuchh Achcha Nahin lag raha hai, Kahin man Nahin lag raha hai. aapka Rooney chillane ka man kar raha tha."

aap use Samay Gaur karte To Dekhte ki is Sansar ka koi prani nahin. Jo us Samay apke dard ko smjh pae, bant pae. 

apko ye bat smjhni hogi wo sb khne ki bate hoti hai ki me jb dosto ke sath hota hu to apne dard ko bhul jata. 

bhai tmare bhulne se dard  khatam hota nhi hai jise hi dosto se alag hoge, dard tmko fir se gher lega or phle se jada ghre daldal me ap is bar khud ko paoge.

 yee to bat kr rha tha me un logo ki jo apke bastav me bhut sage log hai, jo sch me khush dekhna chahte hai lekin wo chahte hue bhi kuch nhi kr skte kuki apki takleef hi isi hoti jo na khi ja skti hai na shi ja skti hai.


 aur ab Baat Aati Hai Un Logon ki jinko aap to apna samajhte ho. lekin wo wastav me aapse aapki tarkki se ya Anya Kisi Karan se bhitar Hi bhitar Jalte Rehte Hain. aapko vah log Khush Dekh Kar Kabhi khush ho hi Nahin Sakte. Unka To khana hi ISI Baat se pachta hai ki,aapko Koi Na Koi takleef Ho. aur aap Aise Logon Ko Apna samajhne ki Bhul kar dete Ho .

aur unko Apne Dukh sunane Lagte Ho. Aisi sthiti mein UN Logon ke dil ko bahut sukun pahunchega aur Agar unhen Aise Bhi Shanti Nahin milati hai..  To bo aapko aise hi Rai Denge jisse Aap Ki taklif badegi hi.

Kam hone ka to Sawal hi Nahin uthata. Har vyakti ki Jindagi Mein adhiktar log aise hi hote hain.



 FIR Teesri category Aati Hai Un Logon ki jinhen aap ke Sukh Dukh se koi matlab Nahin Hota Hai.

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..........................Agar ham apni Jindagi Ki sari samasyaon ko "Dukh "man le. To vah log jinhen aap apna mante Hain. cable Manoranjan Ki Tarah Hote Hain, jisse Dukh ko Kuchh Samay ke liye Bhulaya Ja sakta hai.Jab Manoranjan khatm hoga To Dukh dugni Gati se dubara  wapas a jaega. jabki akelapan use dawai Ki Tarah Hota Hai hai jo Bimari ka Dukh Ka aur sari samasyaon ka jad se ilaj karta hai.

 aap Akele Rahane ki ahmiyat ko Kabhi samajh Nahin Sakte. Kyunki Akele Rahane Mein Jo Khushi milati Hai vah Khushi aapane Kabhi mahsus hi Nahin Ki,

 aur na hi Kabhi aapka dukh Itna Bada Hua Hai ki aapko Aisi Kisi Khushi ki jarurat mahsus Ho.

 aapko to Chhoti Chhoti Baton Mein Dukh ho jata hai ,

samasyaen Ho Jaati Hain ,

Agar Koi aapse puxe ki aapki Jindagi Ki samasya kya hai,

 aap kya janna chahte ho,

 aap ka Lakshya kya hai.

 ki aap koi utsukta hai hi zindagi ko lekar .

To kya kahoge ap log Yahi Kahenge ki 

meri job ka time Sahi Nahin Hai.

 Main Apne bacchon se pareshan hun.

 Meri Biwi Meri Baat Nahin Manati .

UN Logon ki Jindagi Ka Jaruri Mudda yahi hai .

 aise hi aapko Khushi bhi Chhoti Chhoti chijon Se Mil Jaati Hai.

 Jaise shaam ko Man Ka khana mil jaaye to aap bahut khush.

 dosa ke sath chatni Dekh Kar Hi aap laar tapkaNe lagte Ho.

 yah to hai aapki Khushiyon Ke Karan. to kya samjhoge aap Akele Rahane se milane wali Khushi ko aapko apni Jindagi ki 90 percent Khushiyan  To Is Duniya Se Hi mil Jaati Hain .

To aapko kya jarurat akelepan Se judne Ki.

akelepan to aapko kaatne Ke Liye daudega Hi.

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akelapan Ka Sukh use Sadhu Se Poochho Jo Puri Duniya Chhod Kar, Duniya ke sare Bhog Vilas, Sukh suvidhaen, chhodkar Jungle Mein Chala Gaya Hai, parvaton per chala gaya hai. Jahan na khane ki vyavastha hai, na hi Sone Ki aur to aur vah vyakti abhi Yuva hi hai.

 Aisa Nahin Hai Duniya Ne use Dhokha Diya Hai. Duniya to use abhi bhi Bula rahi hai.

To Jara sochiye .............

aisa kya hai kiski Talash kar raha hai vah vyakti,

 ya aisa kya Mil Gaya Hai use Jiske Samne use yah Sare Sukh Chhote lag rahe hain.

 Kabhi Akele Baithe Suvichar avashya kijiega....

 aap Jaise hi hi Kuchh pal ke liye Akele Hote Hain, Nahin main use Akele Nahin kahunga.


 Jab aap Kuchh pal ke liye Khud Ke Sath Hote Hain, Keval Khud Ke Sath Samay bitate Hain.

 To aapko Ek Ek Pal Katna Aise Mushkil ho jata hai, Jaise aapko Kisi  Budhe aadami ke Sath Akele Kahin Rahana Pad Jaaye.

 aap jaldi se jaldi Koi Sahara dhundhne Lagte Ho...... is Baat se aap  is baat ka to andaja Laga hi sakte ho, aap kitne boring Insan Ho. ki Apne Sath 5 minut bhi nahin Rah Sakte .to Koi aapke sath  Kaise time spend kar sakta hai.

 aur aap Kisi Se Aisa expect bhi kaise kar sakte ho......age kya hota hai  turant hi number of time aap apne phone mein lag Jaate Ho. Kyunki vh to non living chij hai. use to aapko jhelna hi hoga. aap uske khariddar jo hai aur aap  Jitna Adhik Logon ke sath Rahenge, utna Khud Ko kamjor mahsus Karenge. 



To Ek to baat hai aapko Akele Rahane ki Dheere Dheere Aadat viksit karne Hogi.

 Main aapko Akela Rahane ke Kuchh fayde bataen ja raha hun, Shayad unko sunkar aapko Akele Rahane ki ahmiyat Samajh Mein Aaye Aur Jindagi Mein bahut kuch Hasil Kar Paye..............

Dhoka nhi milega- vaise Akele Rahane ke bahut fayde Hote Hain ,

jyadatar Akele Rahane wale vyakti ko normal aadami ki Apeksha come Dhokhe Sahan Karne padte hain Kyunki Akela aadami ko koi Dhokha Nahin De Sakta.

Pahchan...........- jyadatar Duniyadari Ke Chakkar Mein ,Logon ke sath Ke Chakkar Mein, Ham dusre Logon per Itna ashrit Ho Jaate Hain. ki Ham apni Khud ki pahchan ko hi Bhula Dete Hain. Bheed Mein Kho Jaate Hain, Kabhi is vyakti ke liye kam Karte Hain Kabhi dusre vyakti ke liye kam Karte Hain.

 Ek Kathputli Bankar ghumte rahte hain.  aur pata nahin chlta aise hi kitne kitne Sal nikal Jaate hi kuki in sv bekar ke kamo me waqt nikalte der nhi lagti.  To Akele Rahane ka yah to sabse solid fayda hai .ki aapki pahchan Bheed Se Alag hoti hai, jo ki ek baat Badi baat hai aur Yahi log Aage chal kar yah yeah Kahen ,Yahi aadatein Aage chal kar aapko safalta ki unchai per pahuncha deti Hain ab ka confidence Hamesha badhta rahata hai. 

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